Friday, December 30, 2011

Analogy of a Cache

My son, the tech geek just sent me this analogy for those of us tech challenged humans inhabiting the earth. Enjoy!

It's Analogy Time: How Caches Work
Caches are pretty simple to understand. Let's say you're running a library with thousands of books and thousands of users. Allowing everyone to roam freely would create a traffic nightmare so you make all requests for books go through your help desk. A customer approaches the desk, tells your employee what book they want, and your employee runs to grab the book. This happens for each request. The time it takes your employee to return with a book after receiving a request from a customer is your service time and it's a value that you want to keep as low as possible in order to prevent you losing your customers to another library.

Over time your employee may notice that certain books are frequently requested. A smart employee would decide to have copies of these books at the help desk, to more quickly service those requests. With a large enough desk, your employee could likely accommodate a good percentage of the requests that come by. At the end of the day, doing so would lower your service time and allow you to serve more customers. Requesting a book not located at the help desk would still take the same amount of time.

If reading patterns change over time, your employee could adapt. Assuming there's a finite amount of space at the help desk, books that are no longer as frequently read as they once were could be evicted from the desk and replaced with more popular titles.

The library I've described above is an example of a cache. The books are of course data, the customers are instructions and the help desk is the cache itself. Data that's accessed more frequently is stored in the cache and as access patterns change, so does the data in the cache.

Thursday, December 29, 2011

New Years Eve Dressing

Not staying home this New Year’s Eve and want to look your best. Even a little ‘Sexy”

First as always, emphasize your good points and minimize what you are self-conscious about.This is the year, where style flaunts great legs. Dresses that are knee length or shorter are abundant.

Decide what style you want? Feel feminine and flirty go with a flowing fabric.











Party in Pants!
You can still have fun if you wear pants like these soft pants from Speigels Pair them with a sparkly sweater, and some fancy baubles and you will look like a million!!


































Not feeling as toned as you would like. Don't like your arms.Cover your arms with a cap or quirky sleeve. Then just cover them, ever so slightly! These dresses are a great example of camouflaging a problem area but still showing some skin!



















Still have your skinny waist? Show it off--don't hide it!!















Need some more suggestions?

So, here are your basics to feel your best from ehow.






Figure out the dress code for the event you'll be attending. Is it a formal party? Semiformal? Casual?

Keep in mind that wherever you're going, there will always be other guests who are more and less dressy than you are.

Be the belle of the ball by pairing a metallic camisole with a satin ball gown skirt and rhinestone satin mules.

Slip into a silver or pink sequined silk dress with platform stilletos for a sleek sexy look.


Pull on a black fringe or silver beaded slipdress with silver mules.


Zip up a strapless black tube dress with glittering beaded trim.

Slip on a sequined silk/cashmere top with a knee length tulle ball skirt.


Attend a fairly casual party wearing sequined cropped pants with a velvet tube top for a relaxed yet sexy look. Or button up a pair of jeans with fabulous beaded fringe cuffs; then don a silk halter and mules.


Choose a simple necklace, bag or bracelet to keep everything clean.


Read more: How to Dress for a New Year's Eve Party - Women | eHow.com http://www.ehow.com/how_9767_dress-new-years.html#ixzz1hxBCZKPI

Thursday, December 22, 2011

Looking for the Perfect Legwear?

I just came across Peek Brooklyn, an online hosiery boutique. I have recently rediscovered the fun of wearing skirts and dresses and this site is a perfect match. They have any kind of leg coverings imaginable from funky to vintage. Prices seem to run from about $20 to $34 for their better tights.

From their site: "PEEK Brooklyn started as the dream of a hosiery enthusiast, myself, and offers for sale much of the hosiery I've featured in my blog Who Moved my Birkin - which has had over 10,000 and will continue to be updated and accompany PEEK with tips on how to wear and appreciate fine hosiery.
PEEK will always have the trendest hosiery of the season, vintage inspired pieces and your daily essentials. We will carry brands that you know and love as well as lesser-known brands that I have found on my travels around the world - sometimes bringing them to the states exlusively through this site. We also hope to support and launch smaller indie brands from both here and the rest of the world.
PEEK Brooklyn is located in the heart of Carroll Gardens, in Brooklyn New York."
Peek Brooklyn - Coloured Stockings, tights, hold-ups and leggings

Peek Brooklyn - Coloured Stockings, tights, hold-ups and leggings (clipped to polyvore.com
Peek Brooklyn - Funky Stockings, tights, hold-ups and leggings



Monday, December 19, 2011

Holiday Shoes Which Will You Choose?

One of your most important accessories is a kickass pair of shoes. A new pair of shoes can do everything from dress up a favorite pair of jeans, breathe new life into your classic LBD, transform a simple dress into a eye-catching outfit or be the icing to your festive new frock. So, check out a few of these styles.

Sunday, December 18, 2011

Enter To Win Two Timex Weekenders



Put Timex at the top of your gift list.

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Give your classically handsome husband this bold timepiece with rugged leather straps and surprise your demure mother-in-law with the petite, casual women’s watch. Your teenage daughter can change her ticker as much as she changes outfits with the collection’s fashionable slip-thru straps.
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Enter now – because like the holidays, this contest will be over in no time. Valid through 12/21/11.

Sunday, December 11, 2011

Stuck for That Special Gift?


Here's some websites with unique and affordable ideas!!

Gifts Under $25 That Aren't Worthless
http://shopping.yahoo.com/articles/yshoppingarticles/756/gifts-under-25-that-arent-worthless/

Wired Staffers Most Wanted
http://shopping.yahoo.com/articles/yshoppingarticles/757/holiday-wish-list-wired-staffers-most-wanted/


Gifts the Give Back

http://shopping.yahoo.com/articles/yshoppingarticles/755/gifts-that-give-back/

How about that special mom?
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Saturday, December 10, 2011

Holiday Sweaters--Not What You Think

Holiday sweaters have taken the fashion forefront, with no resemblance to the snowflake covered red sweaters your Aunt Ethel used to knit. Check out these sophisticated updates and be the bell of the ball. Or add your own gems to a simple cardigan and take off in style.


With the holiday sales, most sweaters are reduced for your shopping pleasure!!

Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Eight Ways to Tie a Scarf


Check out Coldwater Creeks instructions on savvy ways to tie your scarf

http://www.coldwatercreek.com/style-spot/case-closed.aspx?bpid=130&d=2

Friday, December 2, 2011

WIN A KINDLE


I Heart Daily + Figment’s Books of 2011 Contest (Win a Kindle!)
December 2, 2011 By Anne 1 Comment

You know that feeling when you read a book that is so good, it’s all you can think about and you even shun Facebook for a few days until you finish? Well, we want to know what that book was for you in 2011! We’ve teamed up with our fine friends at Figment for the Books of 2011 Contest where you have a chance to win a Kindle loaded with each of our five favorite books of the year — that’s 10 books!

Here is your mission, if you wish to accept it:Write a review of your favorite book published in 2011. Submit your entry by December 16 at 11:59 p.m ET. Help chose the top 10 finalists by voting for your favorite entries. The finalists will be read and judged by I Heart Daily’s very own Melissa Walker, author of Small Town Sinners and four other young-adult novels.

How to enter:
1. Read the full rules here
2. Sign up for Figment
3. Write a review of your favorite book published in 2011, of no more than 300 words, and press “Publish Now”
4. In the details tab, tag your story iheartdailybooks
5. Wait the 2 hours it sometimes takes to see your piece appear below

Good luck!

http://iheartdaily.com/2011/12/i-heart-daily-figments-books-of-2011-contest-win-a-kindle/

Fun Friday--Why Google Will Never Replace Us!!

One of the listservs that I read put a call out for unique reference queries. I thought you all might enjoy these that she posted below or at: http://theoutreachlibrarian.com/2011/12/01/adventures-in-reference-or-this-is-why-google-will-never-replace-us/

Adventures in Reference, or this is why Google will never replace us
Posted on December 1, 2011 | Leave a comment

Some of the best outreach we do is through reference. A friendly, supportive, helpful reference experience can create bigger fans of the library than free cookies or a Neil Gaiman visit. When patrons walk away feeling listened to and helped, they are more likely to advocate for us, visit us and spread the word that the library has good stuff (like Penn Jillette said, we have good wi-fi). At the end of the day we are service providers.

Good reference service often means having patience, a good “I’m listening” look and going beyond the stacks to answer queries. Once a student was looking for a Bollywood movie she had to watch for class…by tonight. We did not have it; NetFlix did not have it. So I called all of the Indian grocery stores in the vicinity until I found someone who did have it. I found out which bus she could take to get there and how to get a movie account. She felt great about the library and I felt a little proud, I gotta say.

This week, I asked librarians to share their favorite adventures in reference. (We are quite the innovative group.) They each demonstrate in their own way best practices in reference service. And the librarian in question probably created a library lover for life.

Librarian as travel guide, or recognizing user need: Jessica Brown of the Enoch Pratt Free Library shares a story that many of us can relate to: “I had a patron come in asking for directions to a building that was near our location. I did the usual things (address, map, Google street view even), but this poor young woman looked so frazzled and anxious (and also, English was her second language), I decided, what the heck? After a brief conversation with my manager, I took the patron outside and walked her to her the building she was trying to get to. She was so relieved, she sprung at me and hugged me! I realize that this isn’t the most realistic way to handle a question of this type in all situations, but it was beyond apparent that this particular patron needed this information by way of travel guide.”

Mission accomplished!, or finding innovative ways to meet need: drue wagner-mees of the Los Angeles Public Library Brentwood branch is often called upon to help settle bets over outrageous topics with often outrageous stakes. A patron who lost such a bet had to cook a rattlesnake dinner for the winner. He came to the library seeking help with this task (of course!). “We had a southwestern style cookbook that had a really gorgeous photo of a “snake” made out of all sorts of chopped up small food items, like bits of chopped boiled egg, capers, and for the forked tongue you used a piece of pimento cut up. That saved his butt on this bet!” dree reports. The man loved the idea and checked the book out.

Heather Booth helped a patron trying to remember the name of a business that had burned down in town many years ago for a bet. Heather called the local fire department and asked to speak to the fire fighter who had been there the longest. The fire fighter remembered the fire and helped the patron settled his bet. Now THAT’S using your sources.

And, Jen Schuremen, Gloucester County, NJ Library System, had a gentleman who bet his friend that the score of their high school football game (they went to rival schools) in 1953 was a shutout. Jen searched archived local papers and discovered that the historical museum had yearbooks. So she went to the 1953 yearbook and found the score proving the patron was correct and owed a beer.

What is Mick Jagger actually singing here? No reference desk can rightly call themselves one if they have not helped a patron who cannot remember the name of a song but are happy to hum it for you. Karl Siewert of the Tulsa Public Library had a regular telephone patron who often called asking for lyrics to old songs. “She once asked for one that she couldn’t remember the tune to, but I could. I ended up singing the song to her over the phone, though not at the reference desk.” (In case you’re curious, it was “Button Up Your Overcoat.”)

Keeping a Straight Face Award, or don’t eat at this woman’s house: Michell Hackwelder, Northwestern University in Qatar, shares this eye-popper. When he worked at the Queensborough Public Library’s Central Library in the early 90’s, a woman came in saying she had frozen her baby’s placenta and wanted to know what she could do with it. Because she heard that placentas were important. The intrepid Michael gave her references on different cultures religious use of placenta, Medicinal/magical lore/use of placenta, and Use of animal not human placenta in shampoo. (See, we can answer any question…except maybe “could you please read this x-ray for me?”)

THIS is what reference is all about, or there is not really a specific time nor place for reference: Lawrie Merz of Messiah College was the on-call librarian the last weekend of the semester. At that time the desk was not open on the weekends, but the on-call librarian would carry a cellphone. Lawrie was surprised when she got a call, but helped the patron all while CUTTING DOWN HER CHRISTMAS TREE! “I walked them through navigating our homepage and getting to the right database (from memory—had to try to picture the homepage) and then coaching them by suggesting several keywords.”

That’s my librarian, dawg: Sandy Molz of the Swampscott, MA Public Library is the young adult librarian we want to grow up to be. She has two awesome rock ‘n’ roll reference stories. She recalls running into some young patrons at the Warped Tour who couldn’t find the stage hosting their favorite band. The librarian was able to guide them to the correct location (because she had read the schedule!). Even better: one of those library kids went to see Rancid and ended up talking with the band members. He had been into juggalo* music, so they asked him how he got into their music and he answered, “A librarian from the next town.”

Sometimes patrons need hands-on help, or yes we know this is a librarian stereotype: Laurena Schultz of Mt. Lebanon, PA Public Library, Tracey Johnson, Shawnee Community College, and Jeri Cohen, Patchogue-Medford, NY Library, have all provided hands-on knitting assistance to yarn-troubled patrons seeking books to help correct their knotty mistakes. “I felt funny, standing at the circulation desk with yarn and needles, but whatever helps our patron, right?” says Tracey. Exactly!

Where does stuff like this fit into a job description? Amy Gillespie knows first-hand that one never knows what they can expect at a reference desk. There is no “that’s not my job” at a reference desk. A patron came to the Pennsylvania public library where Amy worked needing information on her aunt. Specifically, the aunt had passed away and as she was not next-of-kin, the hospital couldn’t tell her any more than that. The distraught woman had visited her aunt often in the hospital, but was on bad terms with her cousin. She wanted information on funeral services, which Amy looked for diligently using all of the usual information suspects. Finally, she called someone she knew in the medical examiner’s office and got the details the woman was looking for. By the end of that interview, Amy had an invitation to a pecan orchard in Georgia.

Knowing what our patrons REALLY need: Sometimes our patrons just need us to do something for them. We all try to teach and guide so that they can do it themselves next time. But that’s not always the service truly needed. Heather Booth recalls a woman needing instruction to use Word in order to reformat the programs for her mother’s memorial service. Heather decided to just do it herself for the patron as “I just couldn’t sit there and teach her when it was such a personal, sensitive need.”

“So I need this one book about this one thing by this one author…”: Scottsdale, AZ Public Librarian Beth Medley epitomizes what I love about us: we won’t give up until we help a patron. A patron to read a book she had seen on a TV talk show. The catch? She didn’t know the book’s title or author, and she didn’t know which show she had seen it on. Beth prevailed and discovered the patron did know that it was Monday afternoon around 4:00. She did what any librarian worth her weight in free books did and went to the TV Guide website to identify the show. With that information in hand, Beth visited the show’s website to find that day’s schedule AND the book title. ”It took a while,” Beth confesses, ”but she left with what she wanted!”

We will use every available resource we can think of in the pursuit of an answer: Several years ago the Pope referenced a Chekov short story in his Easter homily, but didn’t name the story, recalls Heather Booth. A patron wanted to read it, so she scanned Chekov for the phrases the Pope had used, called several Catholic churches, the library of a nearby Catholic college, and the Archdiocese of Chicago. No one knew what it was and Heather maintains that His Holiness maybe read it long ago and forgot who really wrote the story. In any case, she suggests he could have used a librarian to help him fact check that homily! While Heather never found the answer, her persistence and dedication embody the spirit of reference.

Jen Schureman had a patron ask if it was possible to send a letter to Italy in 1915 and if so, how much would it cost and how it would get there. Jen first tried the United States Postal Service, but they didn’t know. She then tried the National Postal Museum at the Smithsonian Institute. She found out that it would cost 5 to 15 cents and it would get there by boat since airmail didn’t begin until 1918. (I hope that patron dedicated whatever World War I novel they were writing to Jen.)

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is why I am proud to call myself Librarian.

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

Make a statement

Pair these statement pieces with a simple solid color top, maybe a
black turtleneck or scoop neck tee--
and enjoy a striking outfit. Enjoy the compliments!


Make a statement

Bracelet
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Sterling silver jewelry
$25 - target.com

Mallarino bow jewelry
$315 - net-a-porter.com

Pin jewelry
$17 - amazon.com

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Wednesday, November 23, 2011

How to Tie a Scarf

I love all my scarves. I'm always looking for unique ways to wear them. This video shows a new way to tie one.

Thanks Fab after 40!!

Monday, November 21, 2011

New or Old Ideas--How About Some Makeup Tips

I always like refreshers on ways to apply makeup, so I thought you
might enjoy some new ideas.











Friday, November 18, 2011

Fun Friday Embrace Your Inner Geek

Read It: Geek Girls Unite
October 28, 2011 By Anne

Has anyone ever called you a “geek”? Truth is, I’ve always sort of thought it was a compliment, and Leslie Simon’s new book, Geek Girls Unite: How Fangirls and Other Misftis Are Taking Over the World, extrapolates that idea.

You see, Simon is a geek herself, and as one, she understands the nuances and different sub-categories of geekdom. There’s the Fangirl Geek, Literary Geek, Film Geek, Funny Girl Geek, Domestic Goddess Geek, and the one I identify with most — the Music Geek. It’s the first manifesto for we girls who are passionate and knowledgeable about a certain topic or genre.

Simon breaks down each kind of geek in chapters with quizzes, character sketches, lexicons, famous kindred spirits, and corresponding books, music and culture associations. She also gives tips on how to point out “frenemies” (AKA poseurs). For instance, Music Geeks are not “Consumers who continue to buy those god-awful Now That’s What I Call Music compilations.” Leslie, I couldn’t agree more.

So, embrace your inner geekdom — it’s what makes you cool. You’re passionate about your interests and that’s awesome. The whole “aloof” thing is so passĂ© anyway.

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Fight Censorship

Thursday Freebies



Target Beauty wants you to shine this holiday season, so they sent over a little sampling of the latest makeup in store - and I'm giving it away! One lucky Budget Babe reader will receive the following:



Aerosoles

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Send your family on a trip of a lifetime. Travel under the midnight sun aboard the National Geographic Explorer to view snow capped mountains and magnificent polar bears. go to potterybarnkids.com/polar.

Monday, November 14, 2011

Peek a Boo-Fashion Not Just for the Beach




Spring 2012 promises to show lots of crocheted sweaters but why wait. The fashionistas are sporting them now not only for sexy holiday looks but they fit into your business wardrobe as well. Check out this perfect outfit with the mesh sweater from TJ Maxx--to the office or out to dinner!!




Friday, November 11, 2011

Fun Friday-Will the Real Smile Please Stand Up?

My friend Amy posted this and I thought you all would enjoy

http://www.deliveringhappiness.com/take-the-smile-test/

Take the Smile Test
www.deliveringhappiness.com
There is a fun test on the BBC’s Science and Nature page that will challenge your ability to detect a genuine smile. The test is based on the work of Paul Ekman and his colleague, Wallace V. Friessen, who developed a Facial Action Coding System (FACS) to document and translate the array of observabl...

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Celebrity Wednesday with Ursella Andress talking about Osteoporosis


Osteoporosis is an increasingly common condition that affects three million people in Britain: one in two women and one in five men over the age of 50 develop the disease.
After the age of 35, we all naturally lose some bone strength as old bone is lost faster than new bone is made.
However, in someone with osteoporosis this process is speeded up, so the bones become critically brittle - women are particularly vulnerable after the menopause because they have lower levels of bone-protecting oestrogen.
A serious condition


Ursula partying in London in 2004
In many cases, fractures are life-threatening: one in five women who fracture their hip as a result of osteoporosis die within six months.
The problem is that many women with the condition are going undiagnosed. And even in those cases that are detected, many, like Ursula, don't take their medication - with serious results.
Ursula was unaware of how serious the disease could be when it was detected during a routine health check eight years ago.
A scan revealed the bones in her hips were showing early signs of weakening, but she disregarded the diagnosis. As she says, she wasn't an obvious candidate for osteoporosis, being physically fit and eating calcium-rich foods.
'I have always been sporty and done lots of exercise,' says Ursula, who has one son Dimitri, 28, from her relationship with actor Harry Hamlin.
'I have never smoked, I've always eaten well, including dairy, and drink wine only with a meal. And while my mother had a hip replacement, she didn't fracture a hip to my knowledge and she lived to be 96.
'True, I was post-menopausal, but otherwise had none of the risk factors. I didn't think someone like me - a former Bond girl who from 7am until late is go, go, go, who eats well and walks miles every day - would get this disease.
'Foolishly, I refused to take the diagnosis seriously. The doctor told me to take a daily pill to help stop my bones from getting any weaker and to take calcium to help keep the bones strong.
'But I am the world's worst pill-taker and always have been. About four years ago, I was in India and caught pneumonia. I pleaded with the doctor to give me the shortest dose of antibiotics possible because I knew otherwise I wouldn't finish the course.
'With the osteoporosis pills, I would think: "I will take it later" - and it would get later and later, and days passed without me taking the medication.
'Within a few months I gave up altogether and just took calcium when I remembered. I thought I would be fine, especially as I had no pain and was still swimming and walking miles every day, which I thought would keep my bones strong.
'Besides, by drinking a bit more milk and eating a bit more cheese I thought my bones would improve.
'I was totally wrong. By not taking my medication I have put myself at great risk.'
Wake-up call
Earlier this year, Ursula had her first full medical since her diagnosis and was horrified by what the doctors had told her. A scan found that her bones had deteriorated greatly.
'The doctor told me that unless I took my medicine, I would definitely fracture my hip within the next few years,' she says. 'Even a stumble would be enough for this to happen.
'It was a total wake-up call for me. I've always been so healthy, and the idea that just going about my day-to-day life could put me at risk was a real shock.
'Bones don't heal themselves with a sticking plaster; this was serious. That scared me a lot.


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-1079213/My-bones-like-glass-Why-Bond-Girl-Ursula-Andress-blames-ravaged-osteoporosis.html#ixzz1c1ZdZxfu

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Don't Get Frozen Out--Choose a New Winter Coat

Winter and the cold weather is coming. You can wrap up warm but still look fantastic in this Winter's fabulous coats.
All shapes and styles here from the top designers to budget fashion buys - so snuggle up and browse your favorite sites.

Macy's has 20% off plus free shipping.
Lord and Taylor has up to 60% off of most of their coats


Which coat is right for your life and your style?

Consider where you want to wear your winter coat most often. You probably want something that will work with your daily activities. If you are still working and you need to dress up at an office, you might be better off with a classic tailored wool coat. If instead you spend your day chauffeuring your kids or going to exercise class, a sporty parka would much more likely fit the bill. Or how about a weekend coat. Do you go out to nice restaurants or the theater, a long detailed coat would be the best choice. If outdoor activities are your weekend, something warm and snuggly, like a down coat would be perfect.

Think about how your coat will fit into your wardrobe. Of course, you will be layering your coat over what you wear inside. So go with what you wear, so your styles won’t compete. A little preppy? Then unless you’re going for a particular look, a leather motorcycle jacket probabely would be a no, no, but a lined trench or a toggled wool ¾ jacket would work.

Which coat will be most flattering on your body type?
The right size or tailored to the right size is very important. Shape is another story.

"If you would like your coat to help you feel taller, try a women's coat that hits no lower than an inch above your knee to elongate your leg line.
If you need a little help creating curves, try a belted coat. Belts will cinch in the waist, creating a feminine hourglass shape.
If you're worried about looking top-heavy, consider a single-breasted coat.
If you're worried about looking bottom-heavy, try an A-line coat.
If you have broad shoulders or a large bust, look for a coat with a V-neck."

And that’s about it.

Monday, October 24, 2011

Sweater Coats--Are They for You?


Sweaters are one of my favorite winter staples. They solve my dilemma of bulking up with an uncomfortable coat because I am forever cold. I love sweaters so, one of my favorite items is the neutral colored sweater coat. Here is a simple way to add a sweater coat to your wardrobe. Add a Belt!!

Friday, October 21, 2011

Fun and Frivolous Friday


Especially if you have worked all week, Friday’s should always be fun if not frivolous. That is why I try to add a post that has nothing to do with being sixty or fashion do’s and don’ts.

So … sit down and pour yourself a cup of your favorite tea. Don’t look around thinking, I should b e cleaning, raking . . . etc. Feel the warmth. Let it seep from your hands through your body. Inhale the relaxing aroma, and consider everything this cup of your favorite brew can do.

1. Clean carpets: Clean up musty, dirty carpets by sprinkling dry, used green tea leaves on the carpet. Let them work their magic for about 10 minutes, then vacuum them up. Delicate Persian and Oriental rugs can also benefit from a sprinkling of tea leaves. In this case, sprinkle nearly dry, used whole tea leaves on the rugs, and gently sweep them away.

2. Shine wood floors: The tannins in black tea can help shine and color hardwood flooring. Follow your regular floor cleaning routine by carefully rubbing some brewed tea into the floor (don’t use too much water on hardwood flooring) and letting it air dry.

3. Polish furniture: Brewed tea also can help clean and shine wood furniture. The tannins in tea will re-color light spots and scratches in wood surfaces. Dip a soft cloth in a small amount of strongly-brewed tea, and use it to wipe down scratched tables, chairs, and more. Woodworker Jim McNamara suggested using "regular orange pekoe (Lipton's) or other dark tea" in Woodworker's Gazette.

4. Clean mirrors and windows: Tea can remove stubborn, greasy fingerprints from glass, and make it sparkle. Simply rub a damp teabag on the glass or fill a spray bottle with brewed tea.

5. Clean toilet stains: Rumor has it that used tea leaves can magically remove stubborn stains in the bottom of the toilet bowl. Just leave them in the toilet for several hours, then flush the toilet and brush the bowl.

6. Soothe a sunburn: Tea can soothe sunburns and other minor burns. Dr. Oz suggests sponging sunburned skin with "cooled chamomile tea" for it's anti-inflammatory effect. Don't try this if skin is broken.

7. Soothe tired eyes: Warm, wet tea bags can reduce puffiness and soothe pain around tired eyes — and tea bags on your eyes look a little less ridiculous than cucumber slices.

8. Soothe bleeding gums: After a tooth extraction or when an older child loses a tooth, try putting a cold, wet tea bag in the mouth where the tooth was lost and bite down on it. According to the Cleveland Clinic, "The tannic acid in tea helps healing blood clots to form (blood clots function similarly to a scab on an open wound). It can reduce bleeding and soothe pain."

9. Shine dry hair: Brewed tea makes a good conditioner for dry hair. Rinse with (unsweetened) tea and leave to dry for a while, then rinse again with water.

10. Improve skin: The Mayo Clinic suggests that herbal tea ingredients chamomile and calendula can help soothe dermatitis when prepared as a topical cream. Consult with a qualified health practitioner before using these remedies.

11. Soothe acne: Some acne sufferers swear by washing their faces with green tea because of its mildly antiseptic properties. Dr. Andrew Weil suggests washing with calendula flower tea as a natural alternative to benzoyl peroxide.

12. Tenderize meat: Marinate tough meat in black tea to make it more tender.

13. Add to compost: Pouring strong tea into a compost bin will help speed up the process and encourage more friendly bacteria to grow, improving the compost.

14. Help houseplants: Occasionally use brewed tea instead of water to feed ferns and other houseplants that like rich, acidic soil. Spread used tea leaves around rosebushes, then add mulch and water. The tannic acid and other nutrients will benefit the plants. A few used teabags in the bottom of a planter can help the soil retain water, and adds valuable nutrients.

15. Dye fabrics: Green and black teas have long been used in dyes for fabric and paper, particularly for generating a beige, faux-antique look.

And . . . if all else fails, call your favorite friend and have a cup of tea :)

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Lucky Thursday


I always consider Thursday the end of the week. Even though I sometimes work on Friday, Thursday is my night to relax and catch up. Soo, what better way to unwind, then to enter some fun contests. Who knows, you could win your next vacation.

Enter to win $1000 toward a cruise by visiting the Boomer and Senior Expo http://www.boomersandseniorsexpo.com/

Or how about a Shop til You Drop $250,000 Shopping Spree from Good Housekeeping or be a monthly winner of $1000 https://subscribe.heastmags.com (no purchase necessary)

How about a shopping spree from Liz Clairborne. www.lizclaibornecontest.com

Don't forget to join those rewards programs. They are free to join and send you coupons in your email. Try your favorite restaurant and theater websites and even your favorite retail stores.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Celebrity Wednesday--Lovely Judi Dench




Gray is tricky
Wear it well, and you could be unforgettable. But play it wrong, and you risk looking like a (great-) grandma. Despite the challenges, lots of women do go natural — and love it. Would you consider being one of them? Here's what you need to know to decide.

Well, here’s what happens. The cells that produce pigment slow down and make less melanin, causing your hair to lose its original color. Hence, the variations of gray, silver and white. How fast you go gray is mostly hereditary So. . .to color or not.
According to a New York City Salon quoted in Good Housekeeping, there are some gray nono’s

1.Your skin is yellow- or olive-toned. "Gray is a cool shade, so it doesn't always complement warm skin tones," says Robert Gallagher, owner of the Long Hair Care Group in New York City.
2.Your locks are thinning or superfine. Unless you cut your hair very short, a light color (whether blond or gray) can make it look even sparser than it is.
3.Your hair is very frizzy. Flyaways are more noticeable with gray (or blond) hair. So if you have trouble with frizz control, consider coloring to get a sleeker look.
If you have uneven gray patches, consider adding highlights to blend, turning patches into stylish streaks.

If you have: dyed hair and want to go au natural, try switching to a semipermanent color, and a lighter shade with each touchup. According to GH if you only cover the new growth, the ends will fade eventually to the color you want.

If you are gray already, try a little tlc. Gray hair can be frizzier, more wirey and even yellow. GH writes to condition and use a moisturizing shampoo. Counteract yellowing, if any, with a purple shampoo or conditioner (try L'Oréal Nature's Therapy Color Confidence Blonde Brightening Shampoo) and a monthly rinse with lemon water (the juice of one lemon for every two cups water) to help eliminate smoke- and pollution-induced discoloration.

So Enjoy Your Gray As Judi Dench does--how beautiful!!